It’s that time of the year again. The number is edging toward the end on that 2016 calendar and diary! Christmas festivities just over, you may have had some wonderful or not-so-wonderful experiences as family and friendship gatherings may have led to resurfacing of old wounds or beautiful memories, painful or loving.
Even though time is a concept, the earth orbits around the sun just like it does and always has, yet we’ve broken it up and separated it into another day, month and year. Nevertheless tis all good fun and most of all, an invitation to shed some burdens and lighten your load or spring clean totally and allow new beginnings to blossom! A quote came upon me two days ago which I love… “Let go or be dragged!”
Not that there really is a letting go as such but when old sensations, beliefs and ideas emerge fully and release themselves whether you describe them as pains, wounds, hurt, trauma… they diffuse, crumble and yes may even vanish into a puff of smoke! Like soap bubbles popping… clarity emerges that life however it is and you however you are, and others however they are, is simply this passion play as life doing itself.
Just like the spring cleaning of your home, when old emotions, thoughts and beliefs that disempower or cripple… vaporises… all that’s left is space, peace and a bursting expanded heart. Your own love floods as simply this, this beautiful rawness and beauty as a human being, in all your wondrous fresh aliveness.
The new emerging space is now the fertile ground for so-called new beginnings! Without blockages, barriers and cloudiness the heart expands and creates infinitely. Which brings me to the sort of topic I wanted to touch on in this post New Year Resolutions!
I reckon as human beings, we’re divided into a few groups at this time of the year:
- those who totally believe in New Year Resolutions
- those who don’t believe in New Year Resolutions
- those who don’t know if they believe or not believe in New Year Resolutions
- those who are Que? what resolutions?!!
Which one are you?
I used to be no. 2 when was a “spiritual” sort because all my beliefs were based on trusting the universe and higher source into whatever. Then it changed into a no.1 for awhile and I loved it, with all the intense beliefs as Law of Attraction and Manifestation etc. Amazingly by the end of every so-called calendar year I would just about always find nearly all items on my New Year’s Resolutions list ticked off! Now I am actually a no.1 and no.4 simultaneously… why?
Well… seems to be that’s how it’s happened. I still like to write my aims, goals and intentions down on a piece of beautiful paper or on the back of my new diary, with deepest conviction. I also thrive on the sensations and beliefs of growing, learning and ever creating.
However, resolutions are more movable goalposts, ideas and intentions that are also simultaneously happening and ever emerging so basically not fixed… and totally open. The focus and attention is also not in the idea of future but simply is just this.. here. Simply because there is actually no-thing that’s fixed nor defined and everything is infinitely possible, fresh, unknown and wondrously doing itself, as a Me and You and Us! and life! For example, I have not listed down on my list since ten years ago… but this year love and falling in love came to me and happened. If I’d been too rigid about goals and expectations, I might have missed the boat altogether Ha!
So in other words I still like writing down so-called resolutions or intentions, mainly because I love writing anyways. However, what’s written, thought, felt and wished are all simultaneously flowing as a joyful knowing that all facets of my life dances itself as its own beautiful dance of wonder and awe… however the choreograph goes. Ultimately you are your beliefs. If you believe, anything goes. If you don’t believe, you don’t.
Alice: This is impossible
The Mad Hatter: Only if you believe it is.
So as we wrap up the year, whether you believe or not, however you believe, such is how you flow or not. There is no right nor wrong, better nor worse, you simply are your seeming choices and beliefs. These words of empowerment came to me this week. If it resonates for you too, take it and feed those spacious fertile grounds… and watch new seeds grow!
Life… You… isn’t a losing game
In actuality there is no winning nor losing
Only ideas and beliefs of such.
However in the ideas and beliefs of winning and losing…
There is no loser, ever, life
You either win or you learn
Winners are losers who continue to get up and keep going.
I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your connection with me through my Tuwawi teas. Thank you for drinking my teas, reading my blogs and chatting, smiling, laughing and crying with me… for sharing your humanness as mine. As we enter 2017 my deep sense is an exciting year of tremendous change… what about yours? As you sit and reflect the year gone and emerge as the newfound space and fertile grounds, I would like to share you the good old fashioned tradition of Auld Lang Syne with its beautiful sentiments of let bygones be bygones… with a cuppa kindness, love and excellent tea! Click here or the image below for the video of the tune from my heart to yours for a Happy New Year 2017! NB: I’m an amateur muso!
How about you? Would love to hear your words and thoughts too? Please share in the comments box below!
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My darling patsie.
On old years night, I never had that feeling most of my friends say they get as in the ticking last minutes of time before that clock chimes , fireworks crack and as I come from the U.K. And lived in Scotland for 15 years we stand in the streets crossing hands and singing auld Lang sine
The tears of nostalgia..
I’ve sung that song full of hope and gratitude for just breathing and in that crazy moment happy..
Just being ?
I’ve never made New Years resolutions, I’m never that hard on my self, because the tomorrow never holds anything I can’t achieve in the today ..
So no diets , no giving up doughnuts, no wanting to
Climb any mountains, because that will happen even without a purpose ?
And like every new year we enter, like every day we wake to .. every thing is possible, everything is going to be ok. Until it isn’t .
Thank you for your friendship, the love you have given me, my teas I’m still drinking all infused with a bit of you in them.. right I’m now off to strut my stuff , rock my bones to some loud music drink vodka and raise my glass to my family and friends to strangers and wish them a very happy new year and all who sail in it..
May the horizon of this flat world rise up to greet you
Always . And to laugh never forget the laughter.
And cherish our tears,? they are the salt to the pepper. Our beautiful vulnerability..
I’m not sure if my previous reply has gotten to you the vodkas kicking in ??
I hope it did anyway
See you next year patsie ?
Hidear Jane thank you thank you for your beautiful words and love. Forgive me for such a late reply. Recent dramas with dog Charlie and his spinal injury , caring for him overstepped some priorities. Am back on track now me thinks.
Indeed best wishes to you and yours for this new wonderful year! However it goes 😀 lots of love xxx
I LOVE this blog post Patsie!!!! Thank you!!! And I LOVE your teas!! Full of love and passion and emotion!! I am soooooo glad you found love this year! Enjoy and Happy New Year 2017!!
I LOVE YOU!
Lynnie
I love you too gorgeous Lynnie! Thank you for your awesomeness! Love your foods, love all that you do! xxx best wishes for this new amazing year!