It’s that time of the year again. The number is edging toward the end on that 2016 calendar and diary! Christmas festivities just over, you may have had some wonderful or not-so-wonderful experiences as family and friendship gatherings may have led to resurfacing of old wounds or beautiful memories, painful or loving.
Even though time is a concept, the earth orbits around the sun just like it does and always has, yet we’ve broken it up and separated it into another day, month and year. Nevertheless tis all good fun and most of all, an invitation to shed some burdens and lighten your load or spring clean totally and allow new beginnings to blossom! A quote came upon me two days ago which I love… “Let go or be dragged!”
Not that there really is a letting go as such but when old sensations, beliefs and ideas emerge fully and release themselves whether you describe them as pains, wounds, hurt, trauma… they diffuse, crumble and yes may even vanish into a puff of smoke! Like soap bubbles popping… clarity emerges that life however it is and you however you are, and others however they are, is simply this passion play as life doing itself.
Just like the spring cleaning of your home, when old emotions, thoughts and beliefs that disempower or cripple… vaporises… all that’s left is space, peace and a bursting expanded heart. Your own love floods as simply this, this beautiful rawness and beauty as a human being, in all your wondrous fresh aliveness.
The new emerging space is now the fertile ground for so-called new beginnings! Without blockages, barriers and cloudiness the heart expands and creates infinitely. Which brings me to the sort of topic I wanted to touch on in this post New Year Resolutions!
I reckon as human beings, we’re divided into a few groups at this time of the year:
- those who totally believe in New Year Resolutions
- those who don’t believe in New Year Resolutions
- those who don’t know if they believe or not believe in New Year Resolutions
- those who are Que? what resolutions?!!
Which one are you?
I used to be no. 2 when was a “spiritual” sort because all my beliefs were based on trusting the universe and higher source into whatever. Then it changed into a no.1 for awhile and I loved it, with all the intense beliefs as Law of Attraction and Manifestation etc. Amazingly by the end of every so-called calendar year I would just about always find nearly all items on my New Year’s Resolutions list ticked off! Now I am actually a no.1 and no.4 simultaneously… why?
Well… seems to be that’s how it’s happened. I still like to write my aims, goals and intentions down on a piece of beautiful paper or on the back of my new diary, with deepest conviction. I also thrive on the sensations and beliefs of growing, learning and ever creating.
However, resolutions are more movable goalposts, ideas and intentions that are also simultaneously happening and ever emerging so basically not fixed… and totally open. The focus and attention is also not in the idea of future but simply is just this.. here. Simply because there is actually no-thing that’s fixed nor defined and everything is infinitely possible, fresh, unknown and wondrously doing itself, as a Me and You and Us! and life! For example, I have not listed down on my list since ten years ago… but this year love and falling in love came to me and happened. If I’d been too rigid about goals and expectations, I might have missed the boat altogether Ha!
So in other words I still like writing down so-called resolutions or intentions, mainly because I love writing anyways. However, what’s written, thought, felt and wished are all simultaneously flowing as a joyful knowing that all facets of my life dances itself as its own beautiful dance of wonder and awe… however the choreograph goes. Ultimately you are your beliefs. If you believe, anything goes. If you don’t believe, you don’t.
Alice: This is impossible
The Mad Hatter: Only if you believe it is.
So as we wrap up the year, whether you believe or not, however you believe, such is how you flow or not. There is no right nor wrong, better nor worse, you simply are your seeming choices and beliefs. These words of empowerment came to me this week. If it resonates for you too, take it and feed those spacious fertile grounds… and watch new seeds grow!
Life… You… isn’t a losing game
In actuality there is no winning nor losing
Only ideas and beliefs of such.
However in the ideas and beliefs of winning and losing…
There is no loser, ever, life
You either win or you learn
Winners are losers who continue to get up and keep going.
I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your connection with me through my Tuwawi teas. Thank you for drinking my teas, reading my blogs and chatting, smiling, laughing and crying with me… for sharing your humanness as mine. As we enter 2017 my deep sense is an exciting year of tremendous change… what about yours? As you sit and reflect the year gone and emerge as the newfound space and fertile grounds, I would like to share you the good old fashioned tradition of Auld Lang Syne with its beautiful sentiments of let bygones be bygones… with a cuppa kindness, love and excellent tea! Click here or the image below for the video of the tune from my heart to yours for a Happy New Year 2017! NB: I’m an amateur muso!
How about you? Would love to hear your words and thoughts too? Please share in the comments box below!





Using Restoration Blend tea as a base with some beets, carrots and celery, add half a teaspoon of turmeric and stir in some raw honey to taste. It will warm you up and nourish your immune system in the cold winter nights.
What is dukkah? (pronounced dookah) It’s an Egyptian condiment consisting of a mixture of spices, herbs and nuts. It’s usually used as a dip, either as starters before a meal or as a light delicious snack. You may make your own healthy dukkah by crushing roasted nuts (eg. hazelnut, macadamia nuts, almonds) then combined with various spices and herbs like coriander and cumin seeds, sesame seeds, sea salt and black pepper. Or if you’re like me, and a little lazy, you may just purchase them readymade. If such, make sure you buy them from a gourmet deli or like myself, I get them from my Turkish lady at the market who makes and blends her own dukkah, they are as fresh as if I made them myself!
Share your thoughts and ideas about this dish in the comments box below, would love to hear it, and if you haven’t tried it, do so. It’s amazingly simple yet so tasty!




In my household all we’ve ever known is living true to our hearts’ passions and flowing as such. Mind you… this isn’t always a seeming journey without the challenges of obstacles or creeping doubts. A few years back my two older kids James and Jessica (who are young adults now) exclaimed in astonishment during one of our vibrant chats at the dinner table, when they found that their classmates at school had no idea what their passions are. As they were approaching the end of their high school years, these young teenagers were faced with the stressful dilemma of what to embark upon after school, seemingly for the rest of their lives.
As such, to date, feedback and reviews from tea lovers have already flooded in with praises for Tuwawi’s premium remedial quality, in addition to its exquisite and refined flavours. For example, tea enthusiasts have reported that the Sentimental Blend has been powerful in helping calm and relax, even aiding in insomnia. The Melancholy Blend has had the effects of lifting and lightening the clouds during periods of deep sadness.